Relationship Repair · Betrayal & porn recovery coaching · Online worldwide
Betrayal and porn recovery coaching for couples
The discovery changed everything. Relationship Repair helps couples rebuild trust after an affair, secret porn use or betrayal, or make an honest choice about what comes next, wherever you live.
Testimonials
What clients say
“When we did our consultation with Dr. S we were discussing separation… I can honestly say that this saved our marriage.”
Kayla F.
Relationship Reset program
Is this you?
When the person you trusted most is the one who hurt you
You replay the moment you found out. You check their phone, then hate that you checked. You hold it together for the kids and for work while wondering what was real.
Or you broke the trust, you want to make it right, and “I’m sorry” keeps falling flat. Either way, you don’t have to decide today whether to stay.
What changes
What you leave with
Steadier days
The 2am spiral quiets, and you have agreements that help you both get through right now.
Honest answers
You understand what led here, including secretive porn use, without excuses or shame.
A real choice
You rebuild trust and closeness, or decide with clarity, and trust your own judgment again.
How it works
A structured path, not endless processing
01 Stabilize
Make sense of the shock and set agreements for right now, so the questions stop running your days and nights.
02 Understand
Look honestly at what led here and what each of you needs to feel safe again.
03 Repair or decide
Practice rebuilding trust and intimacy with structured dialogue, or make an honest choice with support.
Couples and individual options are available. Format, length and investment are covered on your clarity call.

Meet your coach
Dr. Shawntres Parks, PhD, LMFT, CST, IRT
I am an AASECT-certified sex therapist, a certified Imago Relationship Therapist and a licensed marriage and family therapist, in practice since 2013. I hold both the betrayal and the intimacy that came apart with it, so you can heal the trust and the closeness, not just one of them.
Questions
Questions about betrayal and porn recovery coaching
Is Relationship Repair therapy or coaching?
It’s coaching, not therapy, and it isn’t billed to insurance. California residents who want therapy can ask about betrayal recovery therapy instead. If the discovery has left you struggling to sleep, eat or get through the day, please also see a licensed therapist where you live. Coaching can sit alongside that support.
Can a relationship survive infidelity or secret porn use?
Many couples do rebuild. It takes honesty, time and structure, and both partners willing to do their part. Relationship Repair helps you decide whether you want to rebuild, and gives you a clear way to do it if you do.
Is porn addiction real?
“Porn addiction” isn’t a formal diagnosis, but compulsive or secretive porn use is real and it hurts relationships. What matters more than the label is whether the behavior feels out of control, is being hidden or is damaging trust. We look at that honestly, without excusing it and without shaming anyone.
What if only one of us is ready?
You can start on your own. Whether you were betrayed or you broke the trust, individual coaching helps you get steady, understand what happened and decide what you want next.
Can we do this from anywhere?
Yes. Relationship Repair is online for couples and individuals anywhere in the US and internationally.
You don’t have to decide today. Just start.
A clarity call to find your footing and your next step, wherever you live.